Deborah E answers the question, "I speak with a male friend almost every day and have web intimacy time and share thoughts daily, yet he will not ask to see me."




I do understand how much pain this is causing you. You are viewing this is a relationship which hasn't provided an opportunity to see each other face to face, in-person, and then feeling hurt and frustrated when this relationship doesn't take that step when that step is available to you. That is truly painful.


I presume that you have asked him if you can get together and he has refused. If, on the other hand, you are hoping that he will ask you to get together in person and he hasn't asked yet and that confuses you. If the second scenario is the case, then you can ask him about getting together. I am going to operate from the presumption that you have discussed it and he has either refused, or avoided the possibility of getting together, to a point that you feel personally rejected.

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